Role Playas (The Real Definition of Swagger)

 

"Is it swagger or something else playa?"

Emma Watson, the English actress and model, once said, "I like men with quick wit, good conversation and a great sense of humor. I love banter. I want a man to like me for me - I want him to be authentic." Keanu Reeves broke it down like this, "Because we're actors we can pretend and fake it, but I'd rather the intimate investment was authentic." Then Sarah Ban Breathnach, the best selling author, gave all the homies what they came to hear when she said, "The authentic self is the soul made visible."

Well playboy in order to be REAL you gotta be yourself! We often hear people use the term "swagger" to describe pro athletes, entertainers and even the president. That's the new millennium word for "Style and Confidence". When I was comin' up it was called havin' some flavor. However, I think that too many cats are misusin' the term because they're paintin' with a broad bush. So I'm gonna put it where the goats can get it for you playa.

Swagger is simply the ability to walk into a room and captivate everyone in it without sayin' a word. Havin' the ability to raise eye brows from curious onlookers, get dap from cats for no apparent reason while women keep a close eye just because. It's an aire that can't be explained, you either have it or you don't bruh. In sports they call it the "The It Factor". That's swagger!

It has nothin' to do with your style of dress whether you wear suits, jeans or sweat suits. It comes down to the presence of a man. Now my problem is with duns that use the term "Swagger" to describe cats that either don't have it or people that are on another level. Always understand this playboy, there are three categories of men out here; Gimmicks, Swaggers and Role Playas.


We don't have to spend too much time on the gimmicks because they're just what it says. These are the duns that show up lookin' like their tryin' too hard to have some swagger. They aren't authentic because it comes across as bein' manufactured or fake.  They're always dressed up in what I call a costume tryin'  to look like someone that they saw on TV. For example, the millions of duns that show up at the club lookin' like Chris Brown or Kanye West. Put it like this playa, if you run up on a boy that looks like somebody you saw on TV or like he's about to go on stage but he ain't he's a gimmick! Let's move on.

Now the next two categories are very similar and if you aren't payin' attention you'll confuse the two. They both look the same, walk the same and come across the same way. They even smell the same bruh! However, the difference between the two is MONEY.

 "Swaggers" are those cats that can walk into a room and change the atmosphere in a room without sayin' a word. Boyz are walkin' up to them and givin' them all kinds of love whether they know them or not for apparent reason. Women are sayin' to themselves and to their girlfriends "Who is that and why don't I know him?" They've got  "The It Factor" playboy straight up. It's a flair that can't be taught and everything about them is authentic, no gimmicks or costumes needed, they are the real deal. The question is, can you change the atmosphere in the room when nobody knows your name? If you can playa then you've got "Swagger".

Lastly, we have "The Role Playas". These are the pro ball players, the entertainers and even the freakin' president. It's the group of cats that are millionaires and everybody knows their names. This is the category that all men to some degree want to eventually become a part of. When they've got all of the bread, power and respect all they've got to do is play their freakin' role. It's not swagger if everybody knows their names and kisses up to them anyway. When they walk in they're normally the richest cat in the room and the most powerful dun there. I laugh when I hear people talk about Jay-Z or Lil' Wayne's swagger but that's not swagger bruh that's bread. Role Playas don't mean any harm for takin' credit for havin' swagger because it comes with the territory. They're only doing what any bonafide baller would do if put in that same situation.

 However, when you're worth several hundred million dollars, like some of these cats are, it's not swagger at that point, it's MONEY. Now they needed swagger to become a multimillionaire cat but at this point they've graduated to "Role Playa" status.

When I hear women say that Barack's got swagger I laugh because he's the most powerful dun in the world. If you can't walk into a room and change the atmosphere with all of that power then you need to turn in your Role Playa ID. So at this point I'll just hold on to all of this "Swagger" that I've got until graduation day and I'm on the grind to be the valedictorian bruh!

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