The Head Butt (How Rutgers' DB #JevonTryee played himself with the bully charge)

"You better back up off of that and sit yo cup down playboy! Not today pimp!"

Big Momma used to say, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” Uncle Leroy used to hit us with, “Sometimes a boy may talk crazy to you out here in these streets but never back down, because if you do, you gotta deal with him every day. The G’s in the streets are only going to respect you if you’ve got some fight in you young brotha!”

I’m getting sick and tired of boyz out here using the word bullying! Now we’ve got a dun at Rutgers talking about the football coach bullied him so he quit the freakin’ team. Jevon Tryee a former defensive back just quit and asked to be released from his scholarship because the coach went off on him in front of 10 of his teammates and an academic advisor and he's not playing.

Here’s the story bruh! The defensive coordinator Dave Cohen called ole boy a “vagina” and a “mitch” during a spring study session. Now those are the edited versions of what he called him playboy! I keep my joint PG so figure it out.

The coach got in the kids face and according to the player he threatened to head butt him too. Stop right there pimp! Who threatens to head butt? That's just something that happens when a cat is trying not to swing on a boy. Either he head butted him or he didn't!

Now on some real talk, the freakin' coach didn't just walk up on a boy and start cursing him out in a study session if he was in fact studying! C'mon bruh, tell that to somebody that don't know cuz I know.

Do you want us to believe that that dun ran up on you sweating and foaming at the mouth looking for you to curse out? Really?

Fast forward to just a few weeks ago the secondary had a rash of injuries and instead of promoting this cat to start they converted a wide receiver to DB instead. Ole boy gets offended that they didn’t play him and decides to quit.

Now let’s keep it real or all the way 100, whichever comes 1^st! Coaches have been cursing boyz out since the beginning of time! Its part of the game and most cats that get cursed out are the duns that are slacking, being soft or continually screwing up. Why? Because everything is critical and boyz can get hurt! So if you’re slowing the flow down you're guaranteed to get cursed out.

Does this kid really think that he’s the only freakin’ guy that’s been passed up before? The defensive backs are the best athletes on the field because they play on an island. That means that they have little to no room to screw up because if they do it's a quick 6 points. So if they moved a wide out over to play DB they didn’t trust him back there. It ain’t personal bruh!

Then the worse part about this story is that his momma and daddy are running up to the school trying to defend this foolishness. He’s their kid but he’s a man now. That means he’s got to figure some stuff out on his own. What is he gonna do when he's in the real world on a job and he doesn't get the promotion? Quit and call his momma? Man up playboy!

Like when he decided to walk into the A.D.’s to ask to be released from his scholarship he made a man decision, not a momma and daddy decision! Because if he would have called Big Momma and told her that he quit the team and asked to be released from the very bread that is paying for him to get an education he would have gotten more than a head butt.

She would have shown up at Rutgers in her house coat and raggedy slippers from the civil rights movement and cursed him up one wall and slid down the other. Then grabbed him by the ear and marched him into the A.D.’s office in front of the entire team and got that money back.

Big Momma and I quote: “We don’t care nothin’ about you playin' but you gone get you an education. All the sacrifices I made to get yo butt up here? You got me twisted! Excuse me sir, he didn’t take his medication and really didn’t mean that. Can we act like this never happened?” A.D.: “Yes Ma’am!” Big Momma: Thank you sir and don’t make me have to come back up here again ‘til you graduate! Do you unda-stand me?” Jevon: “Yes Ma’am! Big Momma: "Now take yo "A" to class!"

It sounds like he quit because he wasn’t getting any playing time not because the coach went off on him in study session. So he’s using that incident to justify walking away. Anybody that has played big time high school and college sports has been or have seen a boy get cursed out.

If he would have gotten cursed out at home it wouldn’t have bothered him. I’ve never heard anything on the street that I hadn’t already heard at the crib. So a boy cursing was like hearing Charlie Brown's teacher. Does this dun really think that he’s gonna transfer to a curse free athletic department? They're cursing everywhere bruh!

Well…let’s put it like this, anybody that’s winning is in my Big Momma voice ,"cussin'!" Don’t think for one minute ole Nick Saban ain’t cussin' boyz out down in Tuscaloosa bruh! The way they dun is always lookin’ like he’s about to head rush and fall out on the sideline? I know he’s cussin' and hyperventilating.

If Jevon Tryee and others like him don’t man up now they’re going to have trouble in the real world because like I tell my son all of the time, “Nobody cares about you but the people in this house. If you don’t believe me go pull the car over on I-465 and pop the hood and see how long it takes for a boy to pull over and help you. Like Uncle Leroy said, "You gotta have some fight in you" if you're gonna make it in this world and momma and daddy won't always be there to bail you out. Stop me when I start lyin’!

Holla At Ya Boy!
Jay Graves
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