"Admission Ticket"

"It costs money to get the good Seats"

Everybody dreams of having the best seats in the house. However, it cost money to be the boss or to even look like it. I'm tired of hearing men that have children that don’t live with them saying that their child’s mother is keeping them from seeing their kids. Now I realize that there are some crazy women out there and many times they can be a problem. However, quit blaming them for not being in your child’s life if you haven’t done all that you can do to help raise them. I call it like I see it bruh. Stop acting like you don’t have children just because they don’t live with you.

Start paying your child support every month and spend time with them. Even though you don’t see your children every day they're still growing. I can hear these guys saying, “Child support is not my admission ticket”. Sure, it’s not your admission ticket but it always costs money to go to the game. How can you look your child in the face when you haven’t paid to get in bruh? That’s like jumping over the fence or sneaking in. It’s stealing!

Let me tell you bruh, it costs money to sit court side. Just like it costs money to pop bottles in the club, wear designer clothes and drive fast cars, take your woman/wife on dates, put rims on your car, go to the NBA All-Star game or the Essence Music festival, take vacations, gamble or to go the strip club. C’mon bruh! There isn't a judge in America that won’t tell you to kick rocks. Even the word of Gods says, “A man that doesn’t take care of his family is worse than a non-believer“, Timothy 5:8.

It costs money to have a say in what goes on in your child’s life, but, as long as you keep using stupid excuses like child support shouldn’t be my admission ticket you won’t see them. I wouldn’t let you see my kids either if you didn’t contribute to their well-being. Handle your business and go to court when some trifling woman tries to keep you from seeing your child when you ARE paying child support because custody should already be in writing.

At that point, a woman can’t tell you that you can’t have access to your child or children because she would be in contempt of court. I still hear guys standing outside the stadium saying, “Man it cost money to get a lawyer or to go to court”. Man it costs money to be grown! When you start having children you need to understand that it’s a constant sacrifice to raise them. So stop living like you don’t have mouths to feed. You want to sit on the 50 yard line for free. Keep in mind that this guy has reserved seats but refuses to pay for them and gets upset when some other guy is willing to take his seat. I know I'm talking bruh!

If you want to sit in the luxury box they cost money, and all different types of money too. Money to pay book rental, money for school clothes, money for registration fees, field trip money, before and after care money, health insurance money, mommy can I go money, McDonald's Happy Meals money, I need new shoes money, underwear money, groceries money, lights and gas money, mortgage money or just because it cost money to live money bruh.

Who do you think pays for that? Not only does it cost to get into the game but think about the time that you’re missing in teaching and nurturing your kids. One thing is for certain, if you ignore them they’ll still grow up. However they’ll grow up like wild grass and it has the potential to be stubborn. Now it can be saved but it requires additional work from others because of your absence. So if you want to go to the game and enjoy it you‘ve got to be willing to pay to get in bruh.

 Holla At Ya Boy!
Jay Grave
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